Invisible dangers: Why leaving your flat dark could save you

These days, people can easily determine our home address, especially if we're active on social media. For those living in a block of flats, it's hardest to identify the specific flat unless you light it up right after entering, which might give attackers the answer on a silver platter. A TikToker shared her story, warning women worldwide not to turn on the lights immediately after entering their homes. The stakes are your safety!

If it weren't for one surprising event, few people would think turning on the light at home could be dangerous. Mery Alice, a well-known TikToker running the account @heyitsmaryalice, shared her story, which has been viewed 20 million times. The situation she described severely undermined her sense of safety.

One day, returning home, Mary noticed a stranger near her block of flats. The man tried to start a conversation with her, but Mary felt uncomfortable. Although the man wanted to draw her attention to a problem with a spotlight, Mary went straight to the stairwell. After entering her flat, she felt she shouldn't turn on the lights. When she checked the intercom camera, the man was still standing outside the block, looking up as if waiting to see which window would light up. This could have indicated Mary's location.

This kind of story could happen to any woman. Even the innocent act of turning on a light can signal an assailant lurking in the area. Prioritise your safety—don't turn on the lights immediately upon entering your flat. Wait for a few minutes, which might protect you from danger!

Our bodies often react faster than we can respond rationally. Safety should be a priority. Therefore, you have a reason to feel uneasy if you feel afraid. Women moving alone through the city must be particularly vigilant.

If you feel someone has been following you for an extended period, consider purchasing pepper spray and an alarm. Avoid headphones and staring at your phone when returning in the evenings - this could give an attacker a chance. Always be attentive. Avoiding conversations with strangers can save your day. If someone asks what you're doing in the area, saying that you're waiting for someone might discourage a potential attacker.

The light in the home is one of the safety tools that can be used. When you see a stranger in the lift, don't get in. Maintaining safety in a small space is difficult; an attacker can stop the lift to harm you. Similarly, avoid conversing with strangers in the hallway to avoid revealing exactly where you live. Your safety is paramount.