Navigating love and identity: The unique journey of conjoined twins
Carmen and Lupita Andrade are set to turn 24 in June 2024. They are among the most recognizable conjoined twins in the world. Carmen recently decided to introduce her boyfriend. Her sister has to spend time with him as well, although she herself is asexual and aromantic.
Carmen and Lupita Andrade were born in Mexico. They are unique conjoined twins, joined at the torso. Each has one arm and one leg, and separation is impossible due to the number of shared organs.
Initially, doctors did not give their parents much hope that their daughters would survive at all. However, the sisters will be celebrating their 24th birthday in 2024, and each of them is doing very well.
Carmen and Lupita readily share their thoughts online. One of the sisters is in a relationship and recently shared important news on TikTok.
The conjoined twins have different sexual orientations
Carmen identifies as heteronormative; she has been in a happy relationship with Daniel for three years. The 23-year-old met him on a dating website. She never hid from anyone she talked to that she has a conjoined twin.
Lupita, on the other hand, is asexual and aromantic. For this reason, Carmen and Daniel’s relationship requires a lot of compromises. However, it seems that nothing is impossible for the sisters. The relationship between the lovers is strong, and the 23-year-old has publicly expressed her feelings towards her partner.
"I Was over love that I had enough and I found, I was no doubt stressed out without you" - we read in the photo story that appeared on the twins’ TikTok.
Relationships often require sacrifices, but the sisters have developed effective ways to ensure neither feels wronged in this situation.
"Sometimes I feel bad because I want to spend so much time with Daniel. So we try to come up with compromises. Like, (Lupita) will choose where we go out to dinner, or what activity we’re going to do" - Carmen shared on social media, recalling one of their first dates.